sometimes things come out of no where and crash right into you, changing the way you see the world around you and changing the way you see yourself.
oftentimes, in such situations, you ask yourself “why is this happening to me? why now? why this way?” there is no really good answer to these questions. i guess it really depends upon what your values are and where your priorities are. it depends on things like how you choose to see this event and it’s impact on the rest of your world and your life.
me, i have chosen to focus on the hidden lesson in this unexpected occurrence. i know that there is something good to come out of all this, somehow, someway. even if there is pain involved.